NEW THOUGHT

If you want new results with your teen it's going to require new thought. You are going to have to think about what you think about them, because I promise that is showing up in every way you parent. If you think they are ruining their lives, that is exactly how you are parenting them. You may think it is true, but is it working? Is it working to parent with that belief? How do you show up as a parent when you have that perspective?

There is another way and it's not ignoring the issue. It's about choosing to see your teen separate from their actions. Seeing them as a person who may be making some mistakes and who could use some love, guidance, patience, and counsel.

Now that's a new thought.